Losing a loved one triggers various grief responses, and dreams featuring the deceased are a common phenomenon. These dreams, termed “visitation dreams” by neuroscientist Patrick McNamara, can play a crucial role in coping with grief. McNamara suggests that such dreams helped him personally deal with the loss of his parents, leading him to believe in life after death.
Research supports the significance of these dreams. The American Journal of Hospice and Palliative Care reported that dreams of the deceased are frequent and meaningful, contributing to the healing process. A Canadian study found that the majority of bereaved individuals considered their dreams as “visitations,” fostering a belief in an afterlife and enhancing emotional connection with the departed.
Psychologist Jennifer E. Shorter identifies four characteristics of visitation dreams: lifelike appearances, messages about the departed’s well-being, telepathic communication, and an overall sense of calmness. These dreams, occurring both shortly and long after a person’s passing, remain a mysterious yet comforting aspect of the grieving process. Share your experiences with such dreams in the comments and explore the potential meaning dreams may hold.