I’ve been married to Ethan for four years. Our life together is typical—no kids, normal ups and downs. I’ve always believed I loved him, but everything shifted recently.

My father passed away a few months ago in Europe. I never got to say goodbye, and it’s haunted me. “I had my heart set on one dream: visiting his grave.” Determined, I began saving for the trip.

When I told Ethan about my plans, his response stunned me. “You’re being ridiculous,” he said, dismissing my dream entirely. He questioned the expense and called it a waste. I couldn’t believe how little he cared about something so meaningful to me.

His refusal to support me was more than disappointing—it was eye-opening. It made me question everything about our relationship. How could someone who loves me dismiss something that matters so deeply?

I’m left wondering: can I still build a future with someone who doesn’t stand by me when it counts? For now, I don’t know the answer, but I do know one thing—I’ll find my way to my father’s grave, with or without Ethan’s help.