Decoding the Signs: Are They Into You, or Is It Just “Like”?

1. You’re an Option, Not the Priority
If their plans rarely revolve around you, it’s a clue that you’re not their top priority. “True love means making each other a priority,” both in everyday life and during tough times.

2. Avoiding Serious Future Talks
Does the thought of discussing the future make them uncomfortable? Sidestepping topics like long-term goals suggests they might not envision a shared future. “Love involves planning and building a future together.”

3. Emotional Connection Feels Missing
While they enjoy your company, a lack of deeper emotional intimacy could mean their feelings aren’t evolving. “True love involves sharing fears, dreams, and vulnerabilities.”

4. Minimal Investment in Your Happiness
Love is about caring for each other’s well-being. If they’re indifferent to your joys or struggles, it’s a red flag. “True love involves a genuine interest in your happiness.”

5. Separate Lives, Separate Worlds
Keeping friendships, activities, or key events apart from you may signal hesitation to integrate you into their world. “True love involves a natural blending of lives.”

Being aware of these signs can help you understand where your relationship stands—and whether it’s love or something less.