1. Patience and Trust Were Key at First
You took your time before becoming intimate, focusing on building trust and truly getting to know each other. As the article puts it, “You managed to resist, and you made him wait a while.” Despite this thoughtful approach, things changed after intimacy. He became distant—or even disappeared—leaving you confused and hurt.
2. Was It All About the Physical?
For some men, physical intimacy might be their primary goal. As the article states, “Some men just really want the fun and none of the other aspects of a relationship.” Once they get what they want, they may feel no need to stay.
3. Lust Can Cloud Judgment
His intense desire might have masked qualities he later found unappealing. “Being physical with him somehow opened his eyes,” revealing incompatibilities he hadn’t noticed before.
4. A Lack of Chemistry or Compatibility
Sometimes, intimacy can highlight the absence of deeper chemistry. It’s painful but not uncommon to realize, “You aren’t always going to be a perfect match in the sack.”
5. Fear of Moving Too Fast
Even after waiting, he might feel the relationship is progressing quicker than he’s ready for, causing him to pull away.
Final Thoughts
“You have power over men,” but using intimacy as a tool to secure a relationship can lead to disappointment. A healthy relationship requires honesty and mutual understanding. Communicate your expectations and be ready to walk away if he isn’t aligned with your desires.
