Not all relationships are based on real love—sometimes, one person gives while the other takes. Here are five signs you may be used rather than truly loved:
Your Needs Don’t Matter
If your partner always puts their wants first and you’re “constantly sacrificing your time, energy, and resources” without getting the same in return, it’s a red flag.
They Only Show Up When They Need You
Does your partner vanish until they need emotional support, money, or a favor? If “the only time you hear from them is when they need something,” that’s a sign of being used.
No Emotional Connection
A distant or closed-off partner who avoids real conversations may not be emotionally invested. “True love involves vulnerability,” not just staying for convenience.
You Feel Drained
A real relationship should lift you up. If you feel unappreciated and emotionally tired, it may be because “you’re giving more than you receive.”
They Dodge Commitment
If they won’t talk about the future, they might not plan to stick around. “People who use others tend to keep relationships casual” to avoid responsibility.
