Tongue piercings have existed for centuries, shifting from cultural rituals to modern fashion. While the act is the same for men and women, its meaning can vary.

For both genders, a tongue piercing is “a bold declaration of personality,” signaling individuality and a willingness to stand out. It can also be an act of rebellion against traditional norms, a purely aesthetic choice, or a source of empowerment—“embracing personal choices about the body” without outside control.

Differences often stem from perception. Women’s piercings are sometimes unfairly linked to sensuality or flirtatiousness, while for men, they’re more often seen as adventurous. Social judgment also differs: for women, it may challenge ideas of feminine “purity,” while for men, it can be accepted as part of a rugged or edgy image.

Motivations can vary too—women may focus more on jewelry style and coordination, while men may be drawn to the thrill or statement-making aspect. In certain subcultures, meanings split further: for women, it might symbolize sexual openness; for men, nonconformity or solidarity.

Ultimately, the meaning of a tongue piercing “comes from the individual wearing it,” shaped more by personal intent than stereotypes.