Funerals are a time to show respect, and clothing plays a quiet but powerful role. As the article notes, “what you wear to a funeral is more than just clothing—it is a silent expression of respect, empathy, and cultural sensitivity.” While customs vary, some colors are widely seen as inappropriate.

Red is the most controversial. In many cultures it means celebration or good luck, but at a funeral it can look “attention-seeking,” distracting from the solemn mood. Unless specifically requested by the family, it’s best to avoid.

Neon or bright shades like pink, yellow, green, or orange may feel cheerful elsewhere but at a funeral they “can seem careless and disrespectful.” Funerals call for muted tones that don’t draw attention.

Shiny metallics such as gold, silver, or sequins also stand out too much. A glittery outfit can “feel like an attempt to make a fashion statement” rather than an expression of sympathy.

Instead, stick with black or other subdued colors like navy, charcoal, or deep brown. Simple, modest clothing shows quiet support. As the article concludes, “by avoiding colors like bright red, neon shades, and shiny metallics, you signal respect for both the occasion and the grieving family.”