Here’s a shortened, simplified version under 250 words, with original quotes included and only the relevant details kept:

The obituary was briefly posted on the newspaper’s website before being removed, but by then “copies had already spread across social media.” Dwight, a family member, later clarified that the details referred to events from many years ago. He said Kathleen had privately shared regret about past choices and suggested that the obituary’s “strong wording” may have reflected unresolved family emotions rather than her own intentions. His explanation helped readers understand why the message appeared the way it did.

As the story drew wide attention, the newspaper issued a statement about how it handles obituary submissions. Editors explained that they generally do not change family-written content unless it breaks specific rules. They also acknowledged that the obituary generated an unusual amount of response and said they would “review the situation” to ensure they manage future submissions respectfully.

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