Being in love can blind us to signs our partner may not love us as we deserve. These subtle signals often hint at deeper issues.
Unresolved or Personal Arguments
Repetitive fights without solutions create “toxicity,” warns Dr. Joshua Klapow. Worse, if arguments shift from “I don’t like what you’re doing” to “I don’t like you,” it’s a major red flag.

Lack of Communication
No arguments at all might seem peaceful, but therapist Nicole Richardson says it can show emotional distance. Healthy couples talk through even difficult topics.

Trust and Control Issues
Lack of trust in small things—like punctuality—can reveal bigger insecurities. Partners who dictate instead of discuss or act possessive show signs of emotional instability. Tessina warns, “Be wary of partners who don’t accept ‘no’ or pressure you into decisions.”

Emotional Distance
Excessive independence or a “do whatever you want” attitude may signal apathy. If they avoid future plans with you, it’s time to question their commitment.

Rebuilding Trust
Nicole Richardson suggests focusing on empathy and open communication. “Acknowledge positive behaviors” and seek help if needed to rebuild connection.