The pain of losing someone close can lead us to do things we never imagined. For many, a “final goodbye kiss” feels like love — but health experts warn it’s risky.

Once the body stops functioning, it begins to decompose quickly. “Coming into direct contact with a corpse, especially when kissing it, can have serious consequences.”

One danger is bacterial infection. Without the immune system, bacteria multiply uncontrollably and can enter the body of the living. Viruses like hepatitis, HIV, or tuberculosis may also survive for a time, especially if the person died from a contagious illness.

Decomposition releases fluids and gases that “contain harmful microorganisms,” which may cause infections, stomach problems, or breathing difficulties. Funerals also create risks of “cross-contamination,” as germs can spread from person to person. In some cases, embalming chemicals have even triggered allergic reactions.

Beyond health, the act itself can cause emotional harm. “Instead of providing relief, this gesture can intensify sadness and anguish.”

The safest farewell is not a kiss but a gentle touch, a caress, or simply being present. As the article concludes, “Love isn’t measured in a physical gesture, but in everything we shared in life.”