A husband admits struggling with resentment after his wife, who works two full-time jobs and earns a strong six-figure income, gave her parents money for a new car. Instead of feeling proud, he compared the gesture to his own parents receiving nothing.
One night, his frustration boiled over, leading to complaints and accusations. His wife remained calm and told him: “When you start contributing the way I do, then you can decide how the money is shared. Until then, please respect the choices I make with what I’ve earned.”
She explained her parents had supported her through school and believed in her when she had nothing. Helping them was her way of giving back, not a dismissal of his family.
Her words made him realize he was focusing on what he lacked instead of her generosity and dedication. He apologized, admired her kindness, and promised to contribute more.
Now working consistently, he feels more purposeful, noting: gratitude strengthens love, while comparison only weakens it.
