After sharing an intimate moment, it can feel confusing if your partner suddenly turns away. You might wonder, “Did I do something wrong?” or if something deeper is going on. But often, it’s not a reason to worry.

Sometimes, “turning away is simply a need for a breath, a pause to gather thoughts, or a quiet habit.” It can mean your partner just needs a moment to rest or regulate emotions. Recognizing this as “a natural rhythm of intimacy” helps avoid overthinking.

Physical comfort also plays a role. After intimacy, “the body may just be saying, ‘I need a moment to relax,’” whether it’s due to heat, soreness, or an uncomfortable position.

For some, it’s emotional protection. Not everyone feels comfortable showing vulnerability, and “turning their back might simply be a way of protecting themselves from their own emotions.”

Lastly, it might just be routine—some people naturally sleep on a certain side. However, if you sense growing emotional distance, the article advises, “maybe it’s time for an honest conversation.”