In moments of loss, it can be tempting to “clear things out” to regain control, but some possessions carry memories that can never be replaced.

Personal letters and cards are worth keeping. They hold your loved one’s “words, personality, and emotions,” preserving their voice and feelings long after they’re gone.

Photographs and albums are priceless, even if you don’t know everyone in them. They may “hold clues to family history or spark stories in the future,” keeping visual memories alive.

Heirlooms and keepsakes — from jewelry to a worn sweater — have emotional value that far outweighs their cost. They remind you of “cherished moments and traditions.”

Personal documents like diaries, recipes, or awards tell the story of a life. They can “offer comfort, inspire future generations, and serve as a record of accomplishments.”

Grief can cloud what matters most. Don’t rush to make decisions — “set them aside, give yourself time,” and return to them later. You may find that keeping certain pieces helps your loved one’s memory live on.