Have you ever had unexpectedly intimate sex during a one-night stand, only to feel emotionally attached afterward? That happened to me recently. Though I didn’t feel a deep connection on the date, the physical attention got to me. The positions we used were particularly intimate, and by morning, I found myself attached. However, he clearly wasn’t on the same page—he ghosted me after confirming his detachment over text.

After some reflection, I realized my attachment wasn’t about him but the nature of the sex. Certain positions, like The Loving Spoonful and The Lotus Flower, foster deep physical and emotional bonds. These primal connections can amplify feelings, even in casual encounters. If you’re in love, these positions can deepen intimacy in your relationship.

But in one-night stands, be cautious—intimate physicality can lead to emotional confusion.